This book is the first to address the reasons, logistics, and emotions associated with calling off a wedding or breaking an engagement. It is an important resource that speaks frankly to women "on the fence," those who have broken their engagements, and those whose fiances have called it off. Full of the stories of "Almost Marrieds" who've been through this difficult process themselves, and including wisdom from the author's own experience, There Goes the Bride offers comfort, inspiration, practical advice, a few tears, and many good laughs. It is estimated that 500,000 engagements or weddings (15-20%) are called off every year in the US, and while there are innumerable resources for building relationships, planning weddings, and surviving divorce, there is little support available to those involved in this uniquely difficult situation. Calling off an engagement or wedding is still a rather taboo topic, but as divorce statistics hold steady it's becoming more apparent that it's often the right decision. "Better the broken engagement than a divorce!" says Marriage Savers on their website. Or as John Crouch of Americans for Divorce Reform explains: "broken engagements help prevent bad marriages and divorce." Author Rachel Safier is recognized on the popular wedding website www.TheKnot.com (2 million unique visitors per month) as THE expert on the topics of cold feet and broken engagements. She knows how to counsel women seeking the strength to call off their wedding and supports them in dealing with questions like: How do you know it's more than just cold feet? Do you give the ring back? How do you deal with friends and family who don't understand? What about the feelings of grief, anger, and loss associated with the end of a relationship? All these questions are answered in this book, with the collaboration of an experienced therapist, plus marriage counselors, bridal consultants, and others.